I read about others’ ancestors who stayed put and am envious.
Imagine researching the life of someone who never strayed further than a few miles from the place they were born. In this place our fictional ancestor completed their schooling and went on to obtain a trade or tertiary qualification. Perhaps they joined a guild or professional association. They married and had children. The local telephone directory listed their name and address. Every time the Census came around, they completed a return. All these events were recorded and, ideally, whatever information was not available online could be obtained from one or more places in close proximity to each other.
I was out of luck.
By the time Harris was born, a predisposition to travel had already been hard-wired into his DNA. He moved several times between cities and towns, and once between countries, leaving an uneven trail behind him.
I had exhausted the capabilities of the local library, genealogical society and the Internet. Two options presented themselves: follow in his footsteps and connect with the places where he lived or the journeys he made, or try to find those who could source the relevant information for me.
I had always been – and continue to be – lukewarm about pursuing option one. Below is one of the reasons why.
Even if I wanted to get myself to England on a regular basis, I would have to face a flight of almost 24 hours that crosses 10 time zones, and covers a distance of some 17,000 kilometres or 10,500 miles. The flight to South Africa is only marginally less confronting. Some people cope easily with the demands of intercontinental travel. I am not one of them.
My primary reasons for travel are about recreation or reconnecting with friends and family. There have been times when I have used the opportunity of being in a place to try to add to my knowledge of particular interests, including family history, and I leave the door open to this in future. My past efforts have had mixed outcomes and I am cautious about pursuing leads which – if misdirected – not only leave one with an empty feeling, but bite into precious holiday time. There are also certain things that I cannot, or don’t have the time to do now.
Option two came up smelling of roses. I would put most of my eggs into this basket. But I had to start somewhere.
Seeking help invariably involves ‘cold calling’ or ‘cold emailing’. And like all new pathways, the road can take unexpected turns.

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January 13, 2013 at 6:33 pm
aawwa
Well said. In searching my ancestry I found it most difficult when one partner has died young and so they remarry. It gets very confusing. Not only that they seemed to only used half a dozen names over and over again (James, Jane, Elsie, Elisa etc.) Those following after me will have a hard time as I have moved many times and been married a “few” times
January 13, 2013 at 6:38 pm
rose2852
Thanks for the feedback.
January 13, 2013 at 8:36 pm
cassmob
I can definitely relate to ancestry where they moved around. I suspect that some people are either born with the moving gene or acquire a love of relocating. On the plus side, you are confronted with a village with the same recycled names from various cousins/brother etc. I would choose option every time -we have had great fun on the family history travel trail, but each to his/her own. I’m curious how option 2 came up smelling of roses – I hope you’re going to share your success;-)
January 14, 2013 at 8:08 am
rose2852
At this stage, option 2 is going to serve me better. But if the information I dig up – with the help of researchers overseas – is sufficient to warrant travel for the main purpose of family history, then I might consider that at a later date.
I have modified my post to reflect this, so thanks for prompting me to express myself a bit more rigorously.
And, yes, I shall certainly share any success I have/have had. This is definitely a work in progress.
January 14, 2013 at 5:44 pm
cassmob
Sorry I wasn’t trying to tell you to “suck eggs” rather expressing my own experience and addiction to travel:-) I quite agree there’s not much point heading off overseas without any idea of where people were. Good luck with the information you get from the researchers.
January 14, 2013 at 5:52 pm
rose2852
No problem
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